Archive for September, 2007

Cold Shoulder Treatment

Saturday, September 29th, 2007

Fss Fauziah (Bukan nama sebenar) :"Daddy, how do I get rid of a man from my life?"
Paklah : "Why, whats wrong with him?"
Fss Fauziah : "I can’t have my own life since we started as a couple"
Paklah : "Have you tried to say No?"
Fss Fauziah : "Yes I did"
Fss Fauziah : "I’ve read your blogs Daddy, I want a man in my life, not a boy"
Paklah : "Whats wrong with him?"
Fss Fauziah : "Well for starters, he never use his money everytime he is with me. He said he has an event management company but, even petrol for his car he has to wait for me to filled it up. Sometimes, when we lepak in a mamak stall, I cannot remember when was the last time he pays for what we’ve eat. Everytime I nightstops somewhere, he will want to know every seconds that I do in that nightstop. I cant even go clubbing anymore because he will keep on calling me and it embarrassed me. When I said I wanna break, he said I’m being influenced by someone. He even threatened to tell my parents of my ‘out of home’ extra activities. My parents do not like him at all. If I don’t answer his call, he will drive in-front of my house, at whatever time, and stay in the car until I come out of the house and see him. Daddy what should I do?"
Paklah : "Give him the COLD SHOULDER TREATMENT"
Fss Fauziah : " Huh?"
Paklah then explained…….

7 months later. During taking over aircraft…..

Fss Fauziah : "Daddyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!" Fauziah shook my hand, kiss it, hugged me and said "Thank you Daddy"
Paklah : "What did I do?"
Fss Fauziah with a big smile in her face : "COLD SHOULDER TREATMENT works"

Note;

Cold shoulder treatment is when a party just do not response to the other party when there is/are problem/s between both of them. It can be used to get rid of a person of just to take a step back to straightened things back to its place. This world is full of problems that we should try to avoid, not face it and have side effects to our health. It works on me, Fauziah and many others, why not you?

Paklah

Grafity

Thursday, September 6th, 2007

GrafityThis picture taken on 27th Aug 2007.

On the 23rd Aug 2007, I did a flt. It was KUL/KBR/KUL/KBR. In Kbr, on the 24th Aug 2007, I went to the Siti Khadijah Market in Kbr to buy keropok. I bought 30 packs. So, in order to take it to the hotel in Kbr and then back home I have to pack it in a box. Arriving Kul on the 24th Aug 2007, I left the box of ‘keropok’ in the crew lounge because I could not send it home since I was on transit for 45 minutes and obviously I could not take the box all the way with me for he next 4 more days. On the box I wrote "Capt Razlah, 0123206334 - Please do not remove". The reason why I wrote it was, so that no one will remove it from the crew lounge and maybe I have some ‘friends’ who would wonder why my box was there. Indeed, SO Aizad, called me. So I asked him if he could do me a favor of sending the box to my house, since he is staying near my house and he agreed. I was so great full to this ‘friend’ of mine. But, he mentioned to me, someone has wrote something on the box.
When I reached home on the 27th Aug 2007, I’ve asked my wife for the box and indeed there was something written on the box (see attached photo). The additional words written on the box besides my name and my mobile number was "KOTAK INI MESTI EX-AIRFORE OR EX-AIRASIA"
Why did someone wrote that statement?
Was it written by a Captain?
Was it written by a Co-pilot?
Was it written by a Leading Crew?
Was it written by a Cabin Crew?
Was it written by the cleaners?
Anyway, I know that person who wrote was very childish, coward and selfish. I wonder what have I done in MAS to get this kind of grafity. Someone asked me what am I going to do about it.
First, I’ve prayed to god (sembahyang istiqarah), and ask god to tell this person/s to apologize to me privately.
Secondly, I’m giving that person/s till 24th Nov 2007 to come forward. If he do not come forward, I am going to forward the photo and an official complain to the company and let the company deal with it. Then if by 24th Dec 2007 no action taken by the company, I will launched a police report.
I have done this before when I was in AirAsia. As a Deputy Director Flight Operations, I launched a police report for grafity written about my boss, Director of Flight Operations, after an internal investigation failed. the culprit was then found and held by the police. The culprit was then sentenced for three month jailed or a fine of Rm3000. He payed the fine. The culprit, who was a Captain, was then fired from AirAsia. The culprit now, after 4 years, still jobless, couldn’t find a job in the country. Couldn’t leave the country because his passport was canceled. Now he is selling burger at pasar malam in Nilai.

Inalillahi wainnalahi rajiun.