Mistakes are Experience
Friday, December 29th, 2006This is a story about a Flight Stewardess by the name of Fss Cempaka (Bukan Nama Sebenar).
I’ve flown with her only once and it was a daily flight. I was immediately attracted to her (not to be my special or scandle) when I found out that I know one of her familly member very well. We then became friends but since that flight it was only through phones and sms. I’m honoured that she trusted me her secrets by talking to me her feelins, problems and questions.
When I got to know Cempaka, she was going out with a pilot (not an airline pilot). She seems to love him so much. Unfortunately, they did not have much time to spend together. Not even quality times. Somehow or rather the relationship became stale and after finding out that he found somone else, the relationship broke. But, break did not effect Cempaka so much because soon enough he was going out with a First Officer. Not bad looking. Flown with him couple of times. When Cempaka ask me what if she wants to go steady with First Officer Samian (bukan nama sebenar)? I jumped with joy and I screamed " You Go Girl!". Cempaka was a happy girl when they were going out. She didn’t even call or sms me no more. But, I can understand. Tengah sedap layan kan? Few weeks later, received message from Cempaka saying that Samian is seeing someone else besides her. Apparently, he was seeing her before getting to know Cempaka. I was dissapointed. I had this impression that Samian is a one women man or one man women. I would even introduce my own sister (if i had one) to him. When I asked Cempaka, what is she going to about it, she was not sure because she was head over heels for Samian. I suggested to break it up since its still new. She did. But, Samian do not wanna break-up. Cempaka broke into pieces by then. In the end she broke it up in not a good way. The love feeling have now changed to hate.
To help in fighting her missery, we continue our sms communication. Few weeks later, she told me that she met a new guy in her dad company’s function. Went out on the most memorable date ever but did not get a chance to meet again due to job constrain.
Now, a Captain is approaching her for a date and to have a special relationship. She is now scared and confuse on what to do.
Cempaka;
If you think that what had happen was the other party’s mistake, let them be. After knowing you, its their lost.
If you think it was your mistakes, don’t worry. We are humans. We are suppose to make mistakes.
But remember: MISTAKES ARE EXPERIENCE.